Far Away Friday: v3


Hello all! Nancy here. For the record I just typed up all this with two thumbs on my phone and lost everything so this my second attempt. Before I had kids my favorite thing to do was to go on trips and explore new places and do cool new things that you can't do just anywhere.  After I had my son, I obviously still wanted to do this, but it is not as easy travelling and enjoying all the things you used to enjoy with a toddler.  However, I was DETERMINED to continue to cross things off my bucket list even with a kid. 
I started focusing on the things on my bucket list that I could do within a day's driving distance of where I live.  So one of the first actual vacations we took as a family of 3 was when my son turned two.  We went to Ashville, NC.  I know moms that talk about how amazing their kids travel and blah blah blah blah...well that is not my son.  He hates staying in that car seat.  Ashville is about 6 hours away from where I live, but we started early to try to take advantage of him sleeping and then most of the trip we survived by putting Cars 3 on loop on a portable DVD player my husband rigged to the back of a headrest.  I don't like him to watch too much T.V. and my mom says I'm ruining him, but I don't care.  It beats him screaming and crying all the way to Ashville. 
Anyway-this was also our first experience using Airbnb.  For those of you who may not be familiar with Airbnb, it's where owners rent out their places, or rooms in their places to people.  They are usually cheaper than a hotel, and you really feel like you are living in the place you are visiting.  Where all hotels feel pretty much the same, each Airbnb has a different feel.  It's not for everyone, but we love it!  So we took my mom and we stayed in the upstairs of someone's house.  This couple was super hippy y'all.  They smelled like coconut oil.  They were all natural everything.  Apparently that is a thing in Ashville.  Good to know. Anyway, we were a little weirded out at first, but they ended up being super cool, and we had fun talking with them and about them.  
So the whole reason why we went to Ashville was because I wanted to slide down Sliding Rock, which is a natural waterslide in Pisgah National Forrest.  The second day we were there we went to Sliding Rock.  The park is awesome with pretty waterfalls, lots of trails, and all that good stuff that you find at National Parks.  The slide down Sliding Rock was super fun!  I recommend that you get water shoes though because the rocks are slippery.  I don't always plan ahead that well, and I'm more of a wing it person...so I was sliding a little on the rocks.  There were a bunch of kids sliding down the rock, and K did go down with his dad.  But he hated it...the water was cold, and when you get to the bottom, you will go under water.  There is no staying above water.  Probably people judged me for having  him even go down.  But I don't care.  I got to snuggle him once he got out and warm him up.  You can get more info on sliding rock here.
We also went to a nature park. K's favorite part was the big rock. He talked about it for weeks afterwards. It's a smaller park with some native North Carolina animals and a small petting zoo. There are little stations for kids to play at. K liked the stem and music stations. They have fake animals and rakes, and he literally raked up hay in the barn and threw beanbags in holes for almost two hours. Whatever makes them happy? 







Nauticus


This weekend we took advantage of the zoo membership swap and checked out the Nauticus museum in downtown Norfolk. I hadn't been to Nauticus in years, since my high school prom was located there in fact, but I remembered that there were some touch tanks and lots and lots of history about the navy.  I'm admittedly not too into naval history, so I wasn't sure what to expect for a toddler going in, but I figured it was worth checking out.
The tour actually begins on the third floor of the museum. This has exhibits on exports, Jamestown, horseshoe crabs, sharks, and weather. There were significantly more things there for children than I even remembered. There were boats to climb on and in, building tables, magnetic fish for fishing, and an interactive floor projector. R actually touched the horseshoe crab! Like... with one finger, for one second.





The second floor housed the Hampton Roads Naval Museum and the entrance to the Battleship Wisconsin. This ship served in World War II, Korea, and Desert Storm. Children have to be 8 years and up for the interior tour of the Wisconsin, and I couldn't see us pushing a stroller through it anyways so we skipped it, but we did check out the Naval Museum. It had a craft for kids and a little kid's corner with books for boat loving kids.

The first floor had a cafe and the gift shop, but was a little crazy because there was an egg drop competition happening while we were there.



Some general info:

  • Open Memorial Day-Labor Day (Summer) 10:00-5:00. Current hours: Closed on Mondays, but open Tues-Sat 10:00-5:00, Sunday noon-5:00. 
  • Admission: The Gold ticket is $35.95 for adults and $31.50 kids 4-12. The basic ticket is $15.95 for adults and $11.50 for children 4-12. The difference is with the gold you get a guided tour of the interior battleship. There are discounts for seniors and military. Both include the 3D movies. 
  • Zoo membership swap is happening for the month of April for Nauticus  If you have their membership, check out the zoo for free. If you're like us and have a zoo membership, check out Nauticus for free. Zoo members, be sure to check back here for monthly swaps! 
  • Although this is an indoor museum, there are lots of outdoor things to do. There are observation decks, walkways to the Battleship Wisconsin, and outdoor pavilions. Dress appropriately. 
  • There are several theaters throughout the building:
    • Science On a Sphere- 10:30 and 3:00
    • Living River Hidden World- weekdays 11:30 
    • Great Guns of Fire 12:30
    • High Seas- 4:00  
    • 3D movie: Secret Ocean 11:00 and 2:00
    • 3D movie: Aircraft Carrier 12:30 and 3:30 
  • Other things to do: 
    • Knot tying- 11:00 am 
    • Fire suppression- weekends, 1:30
    • ROV workshop- 2:30 
    • Signal flags- 11:30 am 
    • Shark Lab touch times- 11:00, 1:00, 3:00, 
  • Nauticus has summer sailing camps and an after school sailing academy 
  • You can spend the night on the Battleship Wisconsin 
  • There is also a Battleship Wisconsin escape room 
  • You can rent out parts of Nauticus for events (like my prom!), and you can also rent the Half Moone Center right next door. 
Some upcoming events:
Gettin' Frisky on the Wiskey Funraiser- May 12
Mother's Day Special Offer- May 13
Party on the Pier- May 24


Afterward we went to Hell's Kitchen and grabbed some lunch. Lots of veggie options if you're in downtown and looking! 

Toddler Tuesday: Toy Edition

Toys... they are on the floor, under the couch, in the cabinets, and hidden in the back of the closet. Almost every night I put them away and every morning he pulls them back out. Sometimes I don't know why I even bother. We spend so much time out of the house that I try not accumulate too many toys, but we do have a few staples that we love. We tend to not give toys as gifts. Instead Neil and I will put money toward college funds or plan a trip somewhere.


This guitar y'all. My friend Nancy got it for us second hand for R's ROCK-a-bye baby shower. It came with batteries. Those batteries still work. So it's been two years. It plays actual songs. It's been dropped, thrown, dragged across the floor.. you name it. These drums are obviously needed to go with the guitar. They work on letters, numbers, animal sounds, repeating patterns, and growing patterns.


Trucks, trucks, trucks, trucks, all the trucks. Neil's Aunt Debbie gave R a dump truck when he was tiny and it has been all trucks since then. All the fire engines. The school busses. Did I mention the trucks? We have little trucks. We have big trucks. We have all of the trucks in between.
 
This activity table was also a hand me down, but both R and all his friends love it. We used to keep it in our bathroom for him to play with while Neil and I got ready in the morning. It's been so popular that it now has an official place in our front room.
Neil's parents gave R this ride on in the fire truck version when he was very little. We knew he would grow into it, but we didn't expect the level of zooming around the house that was to come. It was pretty cheap, and honestly it looks pretty cheap, but he loves it. The seat pops up and he stores his little trucks inside while he scoots around the house.

That's our toy round up! I'm sure this will change as he gets older, but for now these are our top picks! They have proved themselves to stand up against drops, throws, dog slobber, and everything in between.

Hike It Baby

Hike It Baby is an organization that wants to raise the next generation to love the outdoors, and we are lucky enough to have a chapter right here in Hampton Roads. As much as it is about getting kids outside, it is also about support for parents. Their biggest rule: no one left behind. If one stops for a diaper change, they all do. There are ages from a couple weeks old to toddler children.






There are different kinds of hikes. We started on a playground and after a welcome circle moved on to the hike. We attended an easy one-at-a-child-led pace. This meant that the slowest toddler set the pace for the group. Looking at their calendar, there are three hikes this week alone at three different places. I'm hoping that once it is a little warmer, there will be some on weekends too.  All of the hikes are led by volunteers from the group. Anyone who wants to lead a hike simply just has to enter it on the website and wait for people to show up! For safety reasons, you have to join first before you're able to see the locations, but they seem to be pretty well spread out through Tidewater.

Membership is only $10.00 a year. A year y'all. That's a steal. There is also a 90 day trial period that you can sign up for online. If you're like me and you always want experiences instead of gifts from family and friends on birthdays... this is an easy one to ask for! It is also a non-profit, so the membership is even tax deductible. It is a family membership, so all are welcome to join. Check out the website here. 


If you want to try it out, they have both a facebook group and you can log in and check out local hikes on their website. I'm looking forward to checking out more.  I like being outside, but in today's world it is smart to travel into the woods in numbers. Another cool perk, besides the adult talk for me, and the baby talk for R, and the exercise, is finding out new places! It's crazy, but living in this area my whole life, I'm still discovering new things. That's one awesome thing about this area!



Mom Rant Monday

Okay, I was trying to be a little funny with the title, but this is a rant. Spring Break is over and I spent so much time doing cool things with R that I even more am thinking about all of the things that I miss as a working mom. Almost everything to do with toddlers is during the weekday and in the morning. I realize that this is how companies get people into their businesses, because these are the people who are home at this time. I get it, I get it, I get it. But you know what? Missing out on all of this sucks. Where are these after school things for kids? Yes. I know what you're thinking. "Well, by the time you get home, feed them dinner, and take a bath, it's time for bed." I get it. But one night a week I could make something work. Or why not on a Sunday morning? I get it, people should be in church because this is the South and we still live in the 1800's sometimes, but I'd venture to say most people aren't. Look at the wide array of churches closing in this area from low membership. Take a hint places! Most places don't open until noon, and most toddlers are eating and then napping. 
All dressed up, nowhere to go...

I've complained to people about this before. They say "oh, just stay at home!". It isn't that easy I try to tell them. I do actually like working with the kids at my job. It isn't them, I don't hate teaching, none of that... (Although it is hard and I totally stand in support with all of the teachers striking around the country, we get paid crap, parents treat us like crap, administration treats us like crap, kids treat us like crap, the government treats us like crap...) but I do miss my kid. I need good insurance for us, I need money to live and do the things that I want to do. It just sucks that so few places even have these options.
Take this example. The Kroc center has an awesome Toddler Thursday time. During Spring Break they have camps, during the summer they have camps. So when would I ever get to take R? Sure, this is a first world problem, but from what I've seen in some of our local mom groups I'm not alone.

Here is a small list of places that DO have toddler times on weekends or weeknights:

Also, none of these are on Sunday. The only place we have seen that is great for toddlers on a Sunday is The Bunny Hutch and the Train Clubhouse. So shout out to them! 


End Rant.